Blaming and Accusing Someone

Blamming (Menyalahkan)

Blame is the act of censuring, holding responsible, making negative statements about an individual or group that their action or actions are socially or morally irresponsible, the 

 opposite of praise.

 

EXPRESSING BLAMING

•   It was your own fault.
•   What did you expect?
•   You should have/shouldn't have...
•   I told you but you wouldn't listen.
•   It's no use crying over spill milk.
•   It serves you right.
•   Perhaps that'll teach you a lesson.
•   You're the one to blame.
• You're the only person we could have done it.

Someone who blamed usually declines it. The following are the responses used :

•  It's not true.
• It wasn't me
• You are wrong, I didn't do it
• I am not the one to blame

ACCUSING

•       In interpersonal conversation we often exprience many kinds of situation. Making mistake is one of the examples. When we make a mistake, sometimes we fell difficult to confess it. It's good thing if we want to admit our mistake. The following are expresions of accusing.

EXPRESSING ACCUSING

•       It must have been you who did it

•       I think you're the only person who could have done it

•       You must be doing something wrong

 Responses of Expressing Accusing

•  I'm sorry. It's my fault.
• Sorry for my fault.
• I'm sorry fro the things I've done. 
• It's my responsibility. I'm sorry.